Can you truly force love? That’s the bold question Ashabi Simple, one of Nigerian singer Portable’s wives, is asking in response to rumors that she’s desperately clinging to a relationship with the controversial artist. But here’s where it gets controversial: in a recent Instagram post, Ashabi fired back at critics who accuse her of forcing her feelings onto Portable, raising the eyebrow-raising question: Can you keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept?
This isn’t just about gossip; it’s a deeper conversation about agency, choice, and the complexities of relationships. Ashabi, a Yoruba actress and mother of two, has been under constant scrutiny for her connection to Portable. In her post, she not only addressed the rumors but also expressed gratitude for her relationship, stating, “Thank GOD for the blessing of my man, I’m grateful.”
And this is the part most people miss: Ashabi’s perspective on relationships is refreshingly honest. In a previous video, she shared a thought-provoking caption: “The best thing I’m learning about relationships is just enjoy your time with them. Let it flow, live in the moment, no one is yours to keep and no one belongs to you.” This philosophy, while unconventional, challenges societal norms about ownership in relationships.
But is she right? Her words have sparked a wave of reactions online, with some praising her confidence and others questioning her choices. Comments ranged from supportive messages like “Keep being happy for your blessings” to more critical ones like “Nah u go Dey keep man who doesn’t want to be kept nah.”
Beyond the drama, Ashabi’s situation raises a broader question: In relationships, how much control do we truly have over another person’s feelings or actions? Is it ever possible to ‘force’ love or commitment, or are we simply fooling ourselves?
What do you think? Is Ashabi’s stance empowering, or does it overlook the complexities of human emotions? Let’s spark a conversation—share your thoughts in the comments below. Love, after all, is a topic that never fails to divide opinions.
